Neurodiversity Affirming Practice
All of our services are neurodiversity informed and affirming.
We celebrate the neurodiversity of all human beings, knowing that each of us grow and learn according to our own unique style and timeframe. Neurodivergent and neuro-conforming children and adults learn from each other and the natural world, sharing different needs, means of communication, styles of collaboration and approaches to conflict resolution.
Our ground-breaking neurodiversity affirming preschool opens in 2027.
This model early childhood program that centers education in belonging, exploration and play. Located at North Creek on four acres of riparian forest, children can spend hours outside connected to the natural world in a learning environment that celebrates the uniqueness of each person and the power of belonging to a community.
Respect: Treat each other with care, compassion and trust. Honor each person’s boundaries. Value the diversity of ways we exist and learn together.
Rights: Honor and protect the rights of each child for self-determination.
Responsibility: Education cultivates responsibility to oneself and one's community.
Emergent Curriculum: Learning happens through play and exploration initiated by the students, supported by the environment and adults.
Placed Based Education: Growth and learning happen within the community, and within relationships with each other. Education is based on reciprocity which extends beyond human relationships to all the plants, sentient beings and elements of the natural world.
What is Neurodiversity Affirming Education?
How we respect children in their education:
We value the diversity of each person, their culture, their identity, their way of thinking, communicating and being. We respect the naturally developing identities of children. We trust in their desire to continuously learn, grow and shape a meaningful life. We actively work to make sure we are listening to and seeing each child as their authentic self. We honor the boundaries they set for themselves and remain present to support them when they choose to step beyond their comfort zones. We model respectful behavior in our own actions and continuously refine how we live and learn together. We treat community as something we actively build. Through respectful relationships, openness to change, and mutual care, we grow trust over time — among children, adults and everyone who’s part of this space.
Children have the right of self-determination and personal autonomy:
By this we mean that children make their own decisions and choices about how to spend their time while at school. Adults in our school emphasize that we all learn from each other, regardless of age. We counter the traditional idea that adults should guide children to educational lessons according to standardized developmental milestones, subject matter and timelines. Our staff are not expected to keep children “on-task” or redirect attention to the lesson at hand. Rather they support children’s curiosity, provide help when needed so that children can follow their interests and rhythms to decide how to spend their day.
The right of self-direction and autonomy is especially important for neurodivergent children who are often taught (directly and indirectly) to override their needs in order to meet expectations and demands of others in their environment. For example they must “learn to” cope with bright lights and loud sounds, sit still, use neurotypical body language, and work at a faster (or slower) speed than is comfortable. When these demands or lessons do not match their developmental course they can experience a sense of failure and decreased self-esteem. When children are provided space to follow their interests, move freely and express themselves authentically they develop confidence, keep curiosity alive and express themselves creatively.
In practice, our staff share their knowledge and enthusiasm and initiate activities with groups and individuals. However, when activities are offered, children are able to say no or yes and know that we respect their choice. Through supporting autonomy, we teach and model consent. When children learn that they are in charge of themselves and have the right to choose what feels right and what feels wrong to them, they learn to value their needs. They learn that when they say no it will be respected. In turn, they learn to offer the same choices to others and practice respecting when other people say no.
Responsibility:
When developing curriculum, interacting with families, determining policies, interacting with our staff, and planning activities we ask guiding questions to align our actions with our values.
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Are we leading with love?
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Are we respecting children and protecting and upholding children's rights?
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Are we following children’s emergent play and encouraging their internal sense of responsibility?
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Are we practicing reciprocity in relationships with each other and the natural world?
Each year we will convene community circles to present our framework and develop shared community norms with our changing cohorts of families. We commit to our responsibility to understand how to best support the diversity of our students, families, and community.



For us, neurodiverse-affirming means that we see neurodivergence as different from neuro-conforming / neurotypical, but not less than or better than. We work with children to define the kinds of support they need and how we can provide it. We acknowledge that neurodivergent people need support to meet the demands of different environments, and we use language that emphasizes the goodness of fit between individual and environment. We do not use interventions that are focused on shaping neurodivergent children to act more like “neurotypical” children. When neurological and cultural differences make it difficult to understand each other, we ALL will work to find better ways to communicate with each other. And together we create community norms that support a range of emotional expression styles, learning styles and sensory needs.
Neurodiversity 101
What is Neurodiversity?
Neurodiversity is a term used to recognize the natural diversity and variability of the human brain and promote the inclusion and acceptance of all individuals, celebrating the diversity their neurological functioning.
Neurodiversity is the concept that neurological differences, such as Autism, ADHD, Dyslexia, and other cognitive variations, are natural and valuable forms of human diversity. It recognizes that these differences should be respected and appreciated as part of the rich tapestry of human experience, rather than being pathologized or viewed solely as deficits.


What does it mean to be Neurodivergent?
People who have neurocognitive functioning different from the majority are called neurodivergent.
There is no such thing as a normal or abnormal brain, but simply differences in neuro - wiring. Every human brain is as unique as our fingerprints. We can respectfully acknowledge these differences according to the categories: neurotypical and neurodivergent. Neurodivergent individuals may be given a broad range of labels from Dyslexic to ADHD to Autistic, to name a few. These are just some examples of different neuro - wirings that can exist under the neurodivergent umbrella.



Understanding Neurodiversity
The neurodiversity movement advocates for the acceptance and inclusion of all individuals, regardless of their neurological makeup. It promotes the idea that neurological variations result from normal, natural differences in the human genome. This perspective shifts the focus from "curing" or "fixing" individuals to accommodating and supporting their unique needs and strengths.
How to support Neurodiversity:
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Valuing Differences: Neurodiversity emphasizes the value of different ways of thinking, learning, and experiencing the world. It challenges the notion that there is a single, "normal" brain type.
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Inclusive Support: Embracing neurodiversity means providing inclusive support systems that allow individuals to thrive in various environments, whether in education, the workplace, or social settings.
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Reducing Stigma: Promoting neurodiversity helps reduce the stigma and discrimination often faced by individuals with neurological differences, fostering a more accepting and understanding society.
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Empowering Individuals: By recognizing and supporting the strengths and talents of neurodiverse individuals, we can empower them to contribute meaningfully to their communities and pursue fulfilling lives.
Why It Matters
Understanding and embracing neurodiversity is crucial for creating inclusive communities where everyone can feel valued and supported. By educating ourselves and others about the importance of neurodiversity, we can help build a world that celebrates and respects neurological differences.



Uniquely Human -
The Podcast
The Podcast expands the conversation on autism and neurodiversity by amplifying the voices of autistic and neurodivergent individuals and thought leaders in providing insightful, cutting-edge and practical information about the autistic and neurodivergent experience. Hosted by Barry Prizant and Dave Finch.
Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn’t Designed For You
A paradigm-shifting study of neurodivergent women - those with ADHD, autism, synesthesia, high sensitivity, and sensory processing disorder - exploring why these traits are overlooked in women and how society benefits from allowing their unique strengths to flourish.
Resources
The Arc of Snohomish County:
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Description: The Arc of Snohomish County is a nonprofit organization that advocates for individuals with developmental disabilities and their families. They provide support, resources, and services to promote inclusion, independence, and quality of life for individuals with disabilities.
Website: arcsno.org
Snohomish County Parent to Parent:
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Description: Snohomish County Parent to Parent offers support, education, and advocacy for families of children with special needs. They provide peer support, information, and resources to empower parents and caregivers in navigating the challenges of raising a child with special needs.
Washington Autism Alliance & Advocacy (WAAA):
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Description: WAAA is a nonprofit organization that provides support, resources, and advocacy for individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and their families. They offer programs, services, and information to promote understanding, acceptance, and inclusion for individuals with ASD.
Website: washingtonautismadvocacy.org
ChildStrive:
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Description: ChildStrive provides early intervention and developmental support services for children with special needs and their families. They offer programs, resources, and information to promote the healthy development and well-being of children and families in the community.
Website: childstrive.org



